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Jake Mcguire is Phat Tuesday's
2008 PMC Pedal Partner.
Jake was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia on July 26, 2006, 3 days before his 6th birthday. Our world as we knew it disappeared on that day and we entered a new world that we really hadn’t thought of much before. We felt like time stopped as we were admitted to Children’s Hospital in Boston and almost immediately began chemotherapy. We had to cancel Jake’s birthday party that weekend and thought that it was the end of our summer and life as we knew it.
Unbelievably that wasn’t exactly the case. Yes, our life would never be as it
was before he was diagnosed but we began to understand a new normal. A life
of blood counts, temperature checks and medications. Life became very
unpredictable and Jake’s health would change on a moments notice. We could
never plan too much in advance. The constant worry does take a toll and if it
weren’t for the amazing support of our family and friends we may not have
gotten through that early time. Sleep began to be a commodity that we wish we
had more of. Jake also has a 4 year old sister, Brenna who was longing for
attention by this point and that was very hard to juggle. However, for each
bad day we had he probably had at least 2 decent days and that was encouraging
for us.
Jake took his diagnosis all in stride. Despite being pumped with horrible
poison that was supposed to put him in remission, he got up everyday and was a
typical kid as best as he could be. For a child who had never had blood
drawn before this diagnosis, he showed us bravery that we never knew was
there. From surgery for his port, to blood transfusions and chemotherapy side
effects he continually amazed us in that his biggest concern was what craft
they were doing in the playroom that day! He began to make friends within his
new cancer world with fellow patients and constantly charmed the nurses,
doctors and hospital staff. And his little 38 pound body was as much of a
fighter as his spirit. He amazed the doctors with how well he was tolerating
the chemo and was able to go home on Day 9 of Induction therapy when most kids
stay for at least a month. He again made the record books when he did not
have to be re-admitted to the hospital for fever for the rest of Induction
which almost never happens. As we moved over to outpatient treatment at The
Jimmy Fund at Dana Farber, his charisma continued. He again made more friends
of the patients and staffs, which have now become a huge part of our
lives. And don’t forget this is all during aggressive weekly chemotherapy,
painful procedures and the loss of his hair. Although we have had many
struggles with his oral medications and port accessing, moments after it is
over he moves on and the old Jake emerges ready to play or deal with the next
challenge.
That fall he entered 1st grade a different child. He looked different and I’m
sure he felt different. But he never once complained about it. Instead he
proudly would remove his hat and say, ”It is just because of my medicine and
when I’m done with it my hair will grow back” so matter of fact. We as
parents were always more bothered by him being different then he was. His
determination to keep up with his classmates was inspiring to all. He was
weaker and more tired then they were but it never deterred him from trying his
best and thankfully his friends never cared he was different, instead they
supported him fully. His spirit is truly infectious.
Jake is now finishing second grade and is turning 8 this summer. His hair has
returned and his strength is improving. Throughout the past 2 years, Jake has
endured weekly chemotherapy, around 12 spinal taps and multiple daily oral
medications. He has had a few setbacks and has been hospitalized for illness
twice, once for a virus and another for pneumonia. He spent a total of 30
days in the hospital the first year. But amazingly he has never missed a
treatment cycle and has tolerated 150% chemotherapy dose for 9 months now and
has not been hospitalized since May 2007. He will finish treatment in
August 2008 after 25 months of continuous chemotherapy. This journey has been
very difficult and challenging but within this tragedy have blossomed many
blessings! Jake has taught us the true meaning of strength as have all of the
other children we have met who are also battling cancer. The stories we now
know are heartbreaking and inspiring at the same time. We have also been
amazed by the kindness of family, friends and strangers alike. Jake has over
1000 people registered on his website from all over the country, many whom we
have never met and they check in on him daily. Now that is a support
system. Cancer brings out the best in everyone. We have witnessed ordinary
people doing extraordinary things to make this world a better place.
For Jake, the 5 year cure rate is around 80% and we are immensely grateful for
those odds. We are hopeful that he will be cured and we will never see this
beast again. Thank you for letting us introduce you to our amazing survivor
and for what you are doing to support Dana Farber and their crusade to find a
cure for cancer. We are honored to be paired with Phat Tuesday and look
forward to meeting you all and cheering you on this summer.
Kim, Mark, Jake and Brenna Maguire |